A Mirrors Reflection

EVERY GIRL SHOULD READ THIS! ;) WRITTEN BY A GUY....

Inspired by Lucy Kamau

Girls need to realize: We guys don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls or texts you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. That it can't wait till the morning.

 Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/ cute/stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood I’m in. Let us pay for you! Don’t 'feel bad' we enjoy doing it. It’s expected. Smile and say 'thank you. Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of make-up you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful when she’s just in her pj's. Or my t-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up.

 Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your Bible. Don't talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that. Whatever happened to the word "handsome' /'beautiful ' I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/ stud/cutie/ sexy' or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand I’m not saying I wouldn’t like it ether.

Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don’t wait for him to change!!!!! Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect someone who will honour your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes. Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel. Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say 'i love you’..And actually mean it. Give the nice guys a chance.

 Guys repost this if you agree. Girls repost this if you think it's cute....... Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all the girls that read this will repost this. Life is too short to complain about everything that comes your way so stop and smell the roses in life because you might never have another time to take it, so take your time because they are all different in every way, so take chances in life, if it doesn't work out then fine, there are always more roses to smell...

When I’m silent.......

Sometimes it’s good to be silent.

To be quiet and listen.

Cause then we think about who we truly love and who we don’t.

What we have and what we've lost.

Where we went wrong and whether, if we were given the opportunity,

We would make up for it makes up for it.

In the silence we ask questions and find answers.

We search our hearts seeking truth.

Truth that we hope will set us free.

Redemption; Peace; Forgiveness.

Forgiveness from ourselves.

From our mistakes.

The times we gave up, when we should have waited a little longer.

From the time we left when we know we should have stayed.

From the things we know we can’t control but we wished we could,

Cause then we would have made things go our way.

What of the things that we have lost.

Those we can’t take back.

The words we said. The actions we took.

That can’t easily be mend by a simple sorry. What of them.

Does the silence take that away as well?

Do we find answers for them to?

Not always.

But it will always help to remember and not forget.

To reflect, rather than pretend.

To seek an answer than run away.

To pray and wait. Than to sit and worry.

"All This Time" By One Republic

All this time we were waiting for each other
All this time I was waiting for you
Got all these words, can't waste them on another
So I'm straight in a straight line running back to you.

Our Choices.

At the end of the day
When the world has turned over
The rain stops falling and the sun stops shinning.
We stile have a choice.
When we have lost hope and we feel abandoned.
We still have a choice.
Even when our hearts are broken
And we've been cheated on ,
And the people who were supposed to be there have gone
Guess what we have ?
A choice.
Because we can chose to be like them or be like us.
To stand or to fall.
To succumb or overcome
To stop or begin again.
I chose to overcome ,what about you?

WHEN I LOOK BACK

When God lifts you up and gives you everything that you ever wanted
And your dreams have all come true.
With greatness staring you straight in the eye.
And you’re just a breath away from it all,
Turn back and look at the distance that it took you to reach there.
The seas and mountains that you had to cross
And the trials and temptation that you had to overcome.
When you have looked back,
And you see all these things
Don’t fail to tell God thank you.